last night after writing the last post many things came to mind... but one thing that got stuck was this word, trsut.
my first job was in a software company. after the training, during the final evaluation interview, my manager dint ask any question but told one thing, never trust anyone, how so ever close they are to you.
that statement stuck to me very strongly. at various ocassions it has come back to me. and every time i keep telling how can this be true? if it is true that means then we can't expect this world to be in peace anytime.
what story do they teach us in school? a old lady is preparing vadai, a crow comes steals it, then comes a fox, it asks the crow to sing, the crow sings, vadai falls down, fox takes the vadai and runs. this same story has different version like old lady giving the vadai to crow as part of donation. crow holds the vadai in leg and sings, so fox becomes sad. in any version i find that either you have to cheat to survive or you have to be alert always. fox is always the bad person.
from small we teach the kids not to trust and finally when they get their partner how can we expect them to trust eachother fully? this is the basic question right?
so my post of understanding and trusting and just to give without expecting is logically not possible with this equation.
i have known this for sometime now, still i try to keep telling i trust people. i have trusted and have been let down in many ocassions and i also have let down few in my words or actions. when i turn to those actions of mine and see, that i can see how i have acted. i am able to see where that comes from. i have changed many things and try to trust people but with the basics of that kind, it becomes impractical.
so i give my best now. so atleast i will fill a x amount of trust more than that was existing before. someone after me will increase i by another y amount. and this slow process should somewhere bring a point everyone will trust the other blindly. and there is no need for so mch debate on so many things, then communism and capitalism will not be needed. it will be just beautiful life in this beutiful life.
trust give unconditional love, which can transform anything.
though the words are only few lines, this to happen is hypothetical or somewhere when none of us would be there. but lets hope it will happen and with that hope i go to bed now...
night to all and to my lovely darlingeeee....
my first job was in a software company. after the training, during the final evaluation interview, my manager dint ask any question but told one thing, never trust anyone, how so ever close they are to you.
that statement stuck to me very strongly. at various ocassions it has come back to me. and every time i keep telling how can this be true? if it is true that means then we can't expect this world to be in peace anytime.
what story do they teach us in school? a old lady is preparing vadai, a crow comes steals it, then comes a fox, it asks the crow to sing, the crow sings, vadai falls down, fox takes the vadai and runs. this same story has different version like old lady giving the vadai to crow as part of donation. crow holds the vadai in leg and sings, so fox becomes sad. in any version i find that either you have to cheat to survive or you have to be alert always. fox is always the bad person.
from small we teach the kids not to trust and finally when they get their partner how can we expect them to trust eachother fully? this is the basic question right?
so my post of understanding and trusting and just to give without expecting is logically not possible with this equation.
i have known this for sometime now, still i try to keep telling i trust people. i have trusted and have been let down in many ocassions and i also have let down few in my words or actions. when i turn to those actions of mine and see, that i can see how i have acted. i am able to see where that comes from. i have changed many things and try to trust people but with the basics of that kind, it becomes impractical.
so i give my best now. so atleast i will fill a x amount of trust more than that was existing before. someone after me will increase i by another y amount. and this slow process should somewhere bring a point everyone will trust the other blindly. and there is no need for so mch debate on so many things, then communism and capitalism will not be needed. it will be just beautiful life in this beutiful life.
trust give unconditional love, which can transform anything.
though the words are only few lines, this to happen is hypothetical or somewhere when none of us would be there. but lets hope it will happen and with that hope i go to bed now...
night to all and to my lovely darlingeeee....
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